Project
Reclamation
We’re living in a moment of chaos. And that chaos is by design. It creates fear and confusion, which leads to exhaustion. And when we’re afraid, confused, and exhausted, we’re less likely to fight back.
Project Reclamation is your antidote to the chaos. Inside this space, we’re committed to reclaiming our bodies, our time, our joy, and our lives from the chaos. And we’re doing it in a vibrant, supportive community that is truly focused on creating change.
This is not theoretical for me.
When the 2016 election happened, I thought I knew how to work through shit. I had done ages of therapy. I was good.
Aside from the nightmares and panic attacks, that is. Waking up every 45 minutes with horrific imagery in my mind. Ducking to the ground every time a helicopter flew over my apartment. I was, in fact, NOT good.
Here’s one thing I know to be true: Centering and grounding yourself in the present moment helps you tap into your agency rather than having a buildup of unprocessed emotion siphoning all of your energy. You need to be able to come down from the rage and terror, because you need your energy to get through the chaos of these four years.
But I got involved in grassroots organizing, and I found that was the only way I felt safe. And I burned myself out to the point that I nearly lost my business because all of my time and energy was spent volunteering. Again — it was the only way I felt safe.
It was through the tools I teach inside Project Reclamation that I learned how to reclaim my agency and feel safe in my body. And over time, that allowed me to show up to my activism from a place of strength and resilience, as opposed to a place of frantic terror.
It allowed me to show up to my life again amid the chaos of his first administration.
And that’s what I want for you. Because we need you. We need the strong, resilient version of you as much as possible. And when you don’t have it in you, we need you to be able to notice that, step back, lean on community, and move through what you’re feeling, so that you can come back to strength and resilience.
Because if we’re all burnt the fuck out, we can’t get anywhere.
We are stronger together. Community will save us. And our communities will be much stronger — and our collective actions will be much stronger — when we’re each showing up from within our own centered agency. From emotional strength and resilience.
It's time to reclaim you. For you.
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It's time to reclaim you. For you. ✶
What’s Included
Self-Coaching Course
Excavation: A 45-day self-coaching course and study guide to teach you useful tools for nervous system regulation, emotional processing, and narrative recognition so that you can decide — on purpose — what to keep and what to shift to reclaim your agency in every aspect of life.
Book Club
Integrated book club for those who are avid readers and want to discuss the topics we coach through from every angle. The curated reading list is all women+ authors, with priority given to queer authors and authors of color.
First Dibs on Retreats!
Seats for in-person Reclamation Retreats will be given to Project Reclamation members before being opened up to the public. #priority
Reclamation Retreats happen every summer in Kansas City and are designed to be immersive experiences to amplify your personal reclamation.
International retreats coming soon.
Private Slack Channels
This private Slack community is your hub for coaching, questions, and support at every paid level of membership. Bring all your bullshit. Our master certified coaches are there with you. We’ve taken this off of social media for privacy and security to ensure a safe space.
Celebrations & Dance Parties!
Virtual and in-person celebrations! We celebrate. We dance. We have fun. On purpose. Pleasure is your birthright, and experiencing joy is one of the most powerful forms of political resistance.
Snail Mail
Birthday cards. Seriously. As long as you’re a paid member during your birthday month and we have your address on file, you’re gonna get a card in the mail from me. Because birthdays are my favorite and I want to celebrate you every chance I can. Plus welcome cards, holiday cards, and other cards randomly just because.
Group Calls
Regular group coaching calls for paid members to solidify your understanding of the tools we use, guide you where you get stuck, and help you take the work deeper. And grounding calls to help you center yourself into your body rather than the spin of chaos.
Deep-Dive Sessions
Opportunities for deep-dive sessions, working on one specific aspect of life over time with other folks focused on the same topic. You’ll have lessons, workbooks, and weekly coaching inside these containers.
Private Facebook Community
This private Facebook community is your hub for coaching, questions, and support at the free level of membership. Bring all your bullshit. Our master certified coaches are there with you. We know that not everyone will want to be behind the paywall, so the free Facebook group will be available as long as it remains safe to maintain.
Questions about Project Reclamation & the Coaching Industry
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New Beginnings: If you’re just starting your reclamation journey or have been going it alone up to this point, this is your space. You’ll learn the skills to develop a solid foundation and build them amongst like-minded folks who are there to support and celebrate you.
Experienced Explorers: For the savvy souls who know their way around thought work and self-coaching, we’ll help you keep that mindfulness front and center. Dive deep, refine your skills, and uncover new layers of self-awareness with guided support.
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Rediscover Yourself: Reclaim every facet of your identity and show up to your life as your favorite self, unapologetically.
Better Connections: Upgrade your relationships with friends, family, and partners. No matter who they are. No matter what the past has looked like.
Love Your Body: Transform the relationship you have with your body, because self-love is a revolutionary act. (If that sounds too far away, it’ll start by just hating your body a little less.)
Feel Grounded: Learn to regulate your nervous system and process your emotions with zero self-judgment so the feelings will flow through you instead of piling up.
Ditch People Pleasing: Shift your perspective of what it means to take care of those you love so that it’s not completely draining. You deserve to be well-nourished before anything else happens.
End Scarcity Mentality: Whether it’s “not enough time” or “not enough money” or “not enough _____” you’ll learn to recognize where that’s actually not true to utilize the resources you DO have and generate what you need when you need it, instead of perpetuating an endless cycle that feels like shit.
Have Better Sex: Connect with your unique body, your divine pleasure centers, and learn to communicate effectively for stimulating partnered experiences.
Redefine Self-Care: Because it’s often the boring shit that leads to the greatest results. Mani/pedis are great. But what does it truly mean to deeply care for yourself? That’s where the magic is.
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Yeah, that’s real coach-speak, eh? “Self-coaching community.” So let’s break it down.
Self-coaching is a concept where you essentially learn to use coaching tools to coach yourself, which can be wonderfully empowering. And can also lead to a lot of personal responsibility for systemic issues or disconnecting from community because you “should” be completely self-reliant.
The coaching industry is full of this kind of dichotomy. And often, it’s very heavily weighted on the side of personal responsibility and self-reliance. “Just change your thoughts, and then everything is fine.”
And, like, yeah. That’s true to a certain point. But the concept that it’s all just your thoughts can so easily be used for manipulation and gaslighting, and when used as a self-coaching concept, can really fucking easily be used for self-gaslighting to accept circumstances that are inauthentic to our innermost truths. It can keep us in positions that hold us back or, worse, actively harm us. And it can be the worst form of bootstrap bullshit, mental and emotional self-harm weaponry, and victim blaming.
This is where the community and the Master Certified Coaches come in. Because when it’s just you with yourself, even with the best tools, your own patterns and lenses will influence how you see your narratives and how you use the tools.
So, inside Project Reclamation, you do get access to incredibly effective self-coaching tools. You also get access to a supportive community. And actual coaches who are trained in various modalities to help you learn to use the tools yourself effectively and help guide you out of your patterns because we see you through different lenses than you see yourself.
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The coaching industry has become so elitist, capitalistic, and inaccessible. My thoughts? I think that fucking sucks.
And, listen, it’s not that I don’t think coaches deserve to be paid well for their work. We ALL deserve to be well-resourced and well-supported.
But if target audiences can’t afford you without going into debt, and are actively being encouraged into that debt, are their best interests really in mind? Or is it just a quick cash grab?
I’m not into quick cash grabs. And I’m not into turning people into dollar signs.
Manipulating people into paying (or charging) more by making them feel terrible and like specific coaching is the only solution is shitty marketing, shitty sales, and makes me assume that, on the inside, will be shitty coaching.
But the purpose of learning to coach yourself and receiving coaching is to make your experience of life a little less shitty. So, with Project Reclamation, we’re reclaiming what a coaching community consists of, how it’s priced, and how it’s marketed.
I have no interest in pushing on your pain points and convincing you that I’m the solution. I have no interest in getting you to put me on a pedestal and trust me more than you trust yourself.
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Within Project Reclamation, the community aspect is crucial. And that goes not just for the membership but also for the coaches.
The behind-the-scenes structure is very collectivist in nature. I’m not at the top, acting as a figurehead, with anyone working FOR me. The point is that we’re building something beautiful together.
We’re reclaiming what it means to run a membership community and provide support for our clients. We’re reclaiming the structure of what that looks like from the hierarchical bullshit we’ve seen elsewhere.
This is truly a labor of love. Love for our work. Love for our industry. Love for our clients. Love for the community we’re building. Love for one another. Love for ourselves. And love for humanity as a whole.
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Built with the philosophy of equity-first, through the lens of anti-capitalism, upon a foundation of self-coaching tools with access to master certified life coaches, all within the context of a supportive community — at $10/month or $100/year for those in a place of financial need, $30/month or $300/year for those in a place of financial sufficiency, and $70/month or $700/year for those in a place of financial privilege, and a free option for those who want the DIY approach without access to coaching calls and who don’t mind being on a Meta platform — Project Reclamation exists to make what’s normally gate-kept behind massive paywalls accessible to the massive amount of people who need it most.
It’s smart. It’s supportive. It’s accessible. It’s for you.
Inside Project Reclamation, we’re reclaiming ourselves. For ourselves.
Reclaim you. For you.
They want us to believe that our bodies belong to anyone but us. Inside Project Reclamation, we’re reclaiming our bodies.
They want us to believe that our desire is sinful and our pleasure is secondary — if valid at all. Inside Project Reclamation, we’re reclaiming our desire and our pleasure.
They want us to believe that our anger is unwarranted and our rage is petty. Inside Project Reclamation, we’re reclaiming our anger and our rage. And using it.
They want us to believe that our time belongs to everyone but us. Inside Project Reclamation, we’re reclaiming our time.
We’re reclaiming our friendships, our partnerships, our joy, our love, our sensuality, our sexuality, our spirituality, our interests, our hobbies, our careers, and our very identities from the chaos that wants to strip it all away from us.
Join us inside Project Reclamation.
Reclaim you. For you.
FREE: For those who want the DIY approach, you can join at the free level and receive access to the 45-day Personal Excavation Course via email during your first 11 weeks of membership. You’ll also receive access to our private Facebook community, monthly Community Connection calls, monthly Book Club Discussion Calls, seasonal Grounding Calls in association with each Solstice and Equinox, and periodic in-person gatherings.
PAID: We offer three paid tiers. This is on an honor code system based on your financial access. Regardless of which tier is appropriate for you, our paid members receive access to everything in the free level PLUS monthly Coaching Calls with each of our Master Certified Coaches, a monthly Grounding Call, periodic Victory Calls, birthday/holiday/just-because-I-want-to cards in the mail, first dibs on in-person retreats, and a private Slack community with organized channels for various resources and support.
$10/month or $100/year – This tier is for those in a place of financial need. You fall into this category if you occasionally have too much month at the end of your money, eat ramen out of necessity because it’s cheap, and may have to choose between this membership and a streaming service.
$30/month or $300/year – This tier is for those in a place of financial sufficiency. You fall into this category if you have stable income, always know your bills will be paid, and take a vacation every once in a while.
$70/month or $700/year – This tier is for those in a place of financial privilege. You fall into this category if you have extra to invest in what you want to and support the organizations and businesses you care about. We all vote with our dollars, but you can actually put that into practice without any negative repercussions to your quality of life.
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